Beginner’s Guide to the Male G-Spot

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The male G-spot in all its infamy really could be thought of as the Holy Grail in the bedroom.

Much has already been documented about women’s erogenous zones: the clitoris and the female G-spot.

But little is reported about the male counterpart.

Perhaps it is because of macho pride, or owing to its location, it may carry an association with homosexual sex that men or couples may feel uncomfortable with.

But get it right, and it could change a couple’s sex life forever - whether you are straight or gay.

Firstly, it’s good to understand where the P-spot is, how it is ‘accessed’ and how you react to the feeling of stimulation.

Anal sex toys are best reserved for those who may have already experimented with themselves and want to take their pleasure a step further.

The good news is that the male G-spot is easily found with a little patience.

By lying on your back you should be able to reach your perineum, space closest to the anus and behind the testicles.

A little gentle massage around this area should prompt some response.

Once you feel comfortable enough, ensure that you have plenty of lubricants and again, slowly and gently insert your fingers inside and probe inward.

Once you’ve come in contact with the male G-spot, you’ll recognize it as a small, chestnut-sized bump situated approximately two inches inward.

Depending on your tastes, you may prefer constant pressure on the prostate or regular gentle thrusting.

Whichever you choose, once you are comfortable with your body, you can then decide to step it up with anal sex toys which cater to every person.

Before you do this, make sure that you are clean, comfortable and sufficiently lubricated.

Have a shower before play and definitely use the toilet in advance too.

Although it is unlikely that any feces will be present in your lower bowel, it makes a safe practice to do so.

An anal douche can help clean the anus further.

Don’t be intimidated by anything that looks ‘out of the ordinary’, and perhaps try something accessible to start.

Anal beads are a good place, to begin with for newbies.

Most start small and increase in size allowing you to decide what is most comfortable and stimulating.

Beads can be left in during masturbation and sex and removed at the point of climax for the ultimate orgasm.

Anal dildos offer a fuller experience that can be controlled and the angle at your own pace hitting all the right spots.

Again, a handle and long length can give you complete control over penetration. Be careful not to go too far and hurt yourself!

And finally, butt plugs are one of the most popular toys that can remain in place for long sessions.

Tapered heads allow for easy-entry and a flared base will ensure that it stays exactly where you want it.

Remember they’re called anal sex toys for a reason; a bit of fun.

But with practice, maybe you’ll become a master at finding the elusive male G-spot too!