Some women actually end up having a G-spot orgasm and not even too sure how it happened or why.
All they know is it felt awesome and they want to try to have another one – and the sooner the better!
Well, whether you have had accidental G-spot orgasms or whether you have never ever had one, here are a few tips to help you achieve that ultimate big O that you will be having flashbacks about forever!
First of all, you need to be relaxed. If you are all tense or worked up or anxious it will be a lot harder to let go and just enjoy the sensations.
Take a few deep breaths to start off. You can start by just squeezing your muscles pretending that you are holding in pee mid-stream.
You can start to stroke your clit and feel yourself starting to respond with the external stimulation.
Next, take your finger, add some lube if you like, then insert it into your vagina and start to feel around and see if you can find that elusive special spot.
Then keep applying pressure, press all around the spot and keep notice of the different kinds of sensations that you feel.
Try different amounts of pressure to see what you like better. You can adjust the amount of pressure and circle around on press in one spot.
Some women don’t like the direct pressure but prefer to be stimulated around the spot instead – you can decide what feels best for you.
You can also use a sex toy such as a G-spot vibrator to help you find that spot and apply just the right amount of pressure.
And if you feel like you want to pee, that’s ok, don’t tense up or stop, just keep up the pressure and squeeze your muscles at the same time.
Once you get the hang of stimulated that area you might want to see if you can ejaculate.
Keep stimulating the G-spot, lift your buttocks up, and then press out with your pelvic muscles at the same time.
It will probably feel like your peeing, but just keep going.
So push down on the G-spot, hold your muscles tightly, relax, and then stimulate again until you feel like you are about to burst.
Take out your finger or toy right when you feel the intensity of the orgasm. Keep going until you just can’t take any more!
And if it your first time, you may or may not actually ejaculate and that’s totally ok.
Some women don’t shoot out very much juice, but it can be a lot of fun to keep trying until you feel like you got it right!